Day 20

Things I Need To Tell My Husband

Day 20

"By God's Grace, We Will Make It!"

Because of the Lord's faithful love we do not perish, for His mercies never end. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness!

Lamentations 3:22-23

The Bible makes it clear that God's love for you is deeper and more profound than you can imagine. When you and your husband embrace God together you feel differently about your marriage. God's plan for you and your husband is for the love you have for each other to last a lifetime. He is always there to help. If you really want a love that endures, make sure God is the focus of your marriage.

I have been writing about things that we need to tell our husbands, but I want to end this blog with something we need to remind ourselves. We don't have power over our husbands, but we do have "power over all the power of the enemy" (Luke 10:19). Therefore, we don't have to just sit idle and let the enemy destroy our marriage. We have the power in the name of Jesus to stop evil and permit good. Whatever the problem or situation, always remember to pray first. God is on our side! Love never fails.

Day 19

Things I Need to Tell My Husband

Day 19

" I Will Serve With You."

There are different kinds of gifts, but they are all from the same Spirit.

 There are different ways to serve but the same Lord to serve.

 1 Corinthians 12:4-5

Did you know that God has a plan for your marriage? As you and your husband begin to discover God's plan, you must ask yourself this question: "How does God want us to serve?"

You can be sure that God has a purpose for your life. Jesus was the ultimate servant, giving his life for mankind. If we follow Him, we too must become servants. Are you willing to become a servant for Jesus? When you and your husband serve God together there is a strong bond that is formed. You will begin to realize that the reason you are married is bigger than just for you and him to be happy. You are married because God has ordained it and His purpose is to use you to reach others. When the devil tries to attack your relationship, you can remind him that this marriage is not about you, it's about God purpose and God has His Hand on your marriage.

Pray that you will clearly hear the call God has on your life. Realize that you and your spouse were created for a higher purpose. Ask God to to let you be everything He has call you to be and don't let other things sidetrack you. In other words; Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16

Day 18

Things I Need to Tell My Husband

Day 18

"You Are My Best Friend."

I give thanks to my God every time I remember you.

Philippians 1:3

Being good friends with godly people who love the Lord does not happen by chance. We must pray that such people will come into our lives. When we find them, we should continue to cover the relationships in prayer. That is why it's very important to have a church home where it's possible to meet the kind of people you need. Choose to be around people whose hearts are aimed toward God.

Genuine friendship between a husband and wife should be treasured and nurtured. Is your husband your best friend? If so, you are blessed by God. Never take that gift for granted. Today, remember the important role that friends play in our life and the important role that being friends with your husband plays in your marriage. Let your husband know how special his friendship is to you and plan to do something fun together this week. Friendship is a gift from God. Give thanks and nurture the gift.

Day 17

Thing I Need to Tell My Husband

Day 17

"I understand that we have the power of life and death in our words. I choose life."

A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.

Proverbs 25:11

Being able to communicate with your spouse is so important in a marriage. Here are a few simple rules that I hope will help:

1. Think First, Speak Second. If you say the first thing that pops into your head, you will probably wish you had left it unsaid.
2. Learn to Be a Good Listener: Far too many marriages are unsuccessful because one or both spouses simply don't make the effort to listen. Always listen carefully to your husband.
3. Don't be a Chronic Complainer. You will never whine your way to a happy marriage and men rarely respond to nagging, so don't even try it.
4. Be Trustworthy. Don't hedge the truth. Don't omit facts. Don't make promises you know you can't keep.
5. Be Encouraging. You should be your spouse's biggest fan. Not his his constant critic.

You have the power to lift your husband up or bring him down. When you learn to lift him up, you will soon discover you've lifted yourself up too.

Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.

Proverbs 12:18

Day 16

Things I Need to Tell My Husband

Day 16

"I Will Be Strong for You."

Strength and honor are her clothing; She shall rejoice in time to come.
Proverbs 31:25

When a man and woman are married they never know what the future holds, but you can be sure there will be some difficult days ahead. Days filled with doubt, confusion, sickness, hurts, and countless troubles. It's in these times your husband needs to know you can be strong. Men often keep things from their wife so she will not worry or fret over situations, but husbands and wives need to support each other. Let your husband know that his burdens are your burdens too. Assure him that you will not fret over the matter but you will be strong and trust God to care of it.

Bill Hybels said it like this: "God is great and God is powerful, but we must invite Him to be powerful in our lives. His strength is always there, but it's up to us to provide a channel through which that power can flow."

When you and your husband stand together with God, there is nothing, absolutely nothing that the three of you can't handle.

Day 15

Things  Need to Tell My Husband

Day 15

"Thank You for Being a Good Example"

Let your light shine before men that they may see your good works

and glorify the Father in heaven.

Matthew 5:16

You may not realize it, but your marriage is an example to others. The big question is what kind of example is your marriage? I hope your marriage sets an example that honors God, honors family, and encourages others.

Today's world is filled with negative role models. That is why the example you and your husband set is so important. When you serve as positive role models you are helping other couples. They visualize positive changes that they can make in their own marriage. Your children are also taking note of your example. The example you set today, they may emulate tomorrow. Make sure you set a good one.

Ecclesiastes say "When all has been heard, the conclusion of the matter is: fear God and keep His commands." That sounds like a good plan to me.

Day 14

Things I Need to Tell My Husband

Day14

"I Treasure Our family."

But as for me and my family, we will serve the LORD.”

Joshua 24:15

I guess it's ironic that yesterday I wrote about time and today I am writing about family.

I lost a friend and mentor today. After fighting cancer with all her might for 22 months The Lord took her home today. She was a minister's wife, a mother, a grandmother, she ministered in song and in word, and served the Lord with all of her might. Kathy Isaacs was only 48 years old. Kathy loved her family. She did not have to tell you, you saw it. She always put her family ahead of herself,  She knew God wanted her to be a wife and mother first. She treasured her family and now  they will never be the same.

Our families are a priceless treasure from God. Don't rush through the day without taking notice of just how blessed you are. The pressure of this life is intense. We live in a busy world that demands our time and raising a family is a big job. Let's put God in the center of our family. Make sure you take time to worship Him, praise Him, love Him, and trust Him together. The next time your family life becomes stressful remember that those people you love so much are on temporary loan from God.  Tell your husband that you treasure the family you and him have together. Tell God you are thankful for His gift of family. Then say a prayer for the Isaac's family.